{"id":387,"date":"2010-04-03T13:24:09","date_gmt":"2010-04-03T13:24:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/viscontitoscoalda.com\/?p=387"},"modified":"2010-04-03T13:24:09","modified_gmt":"2010-04-03T13:24:09","slug":"ru486-serve-ai-medici-per-scaricarsi-la-coscienza","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/viscontitoscoalda.com\/index.php\/2010\/04\/03\/ru486-serve-ai-medici-per-scaricarsi-la-coscienza\/","title":{"rendered":"Ru486, serve ai Medici per &quot;scaricarsi&quot; la coscienza??"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Terminate le elezioni, eccoci al dopo&#8230;<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">riporto in toto un articolo trovato su internet che mi ha &#8220;fatto&#8221; male.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Non sono contro all&#8217;aborto, anzi favorevolissima, credo sia libera decisione di ogni donna&#8230; ma questa pillola a parer mio \u00e8 un modo per permettere ai medici, obiettori di coscienza di &#8220;lavarsene&#8221; le mani sulla pelle delle pazienti&#8230; e un mezzo per non aiutare la donna, in questa decisione di per se veramente pesante e molto sofferta sempre. <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Inutile, le varie parole al vento: dovevi stare attenta, ecc. Chi subisce violenza deve subire un figlio non suo??\u00a0 Chi non se la sente di portare avanti una gravidanza, di solito non ha futili motivazioni, ma si porta sulle spalle un &#8220;fardello&#8221; di dolore, vessazioni e magari violenza gratuita. Quindi non additiamo la donna, ma cerchiamo di darLe un aiuto fattivo in questo momento&#8230;<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Certo che questa pillola, credo sia stata la &#8220;creazione&#8221; peggiore che l&#8217;uomo potesse mai creare!<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Meno dannosa, era la pillola del giorno dopo, come meno dannoso un &#8220;aborto chirurgico terapeutico&#8221;.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Mi sto domandando se questa liberalizzazione della Ru486, sia stata organizzata per risparmiare sulla vita della donna, per dare fiato in modo etico alle casse dello Stato&#8230;ho molte domande senza risposta.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><em>la vecchia: <\/em><\/span><em> <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><span style=\"color: #000080;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mpv.org\/mpv\/allegati\/1075\/Legge%2022%20maggio%201978%20n.pdf\">LEGGE 194<\/a><\/span><\/span><\/em><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><em> , dove \u00e8 finita?\u00a0 dove tutto avveniva con supporto psicologico, medico ed infermieristico, tutelando la salute della donna in regime protetto??<\/em><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><em>Vi riporto un articolo che mi ha commossa alle lacrime:<\/em><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">da: \u00a0  <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ilgiornale.it\/interni\/presi_ru486_altro_che_aspirina_e_choc\/03-04-2010\/articolo-id=434637-page=0-comments=1\">\\&#8221;Presi  la Ru486: altro che aspirina, \u00e8 uno choc\\&#8221;<\/a><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">di\u00a0\u00a0 <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ilgiornale.it\/autore\/melania_rizzoli\/id=6175\">Melania Rizzoli<\/a><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.ilgiornale.it\/interni\/presi_ru486_altro_che_aspirina_e_choc\/03-04-2010\/articolo-id=434637-page=0-comments=1\"><\/a><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n<h4 style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">l drammatico racconto di una donna: &#8220;I medici  dicevano che  non avrei  avuto fastidi, invece \u00e8 terribile. E devi fare tutto da sola&#8221;. <\/span><\/strong><\/h4>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Anna ha 34 anni, \u00e8 un avvocato toscano, e nella sua regione, nel 2005,  con la pillola Ru486,allora in fase sperimentale, ha abortito un figlio  indesiderato concepito con il marito che stava lasciando.<br \/>\n\u00abMa quale banalizzazione dell\u2019aborto\u00bb mi racconta mentre siamo sedute in  un bar di Orbetello, \u00ab\u00e8 stato terribile e non lo rifarei mai pi\u00f9\u00bb. \u00abVoi  medici siete crudeli e cinici, siete abituati al dolore, quello degli  altri, e trascurate l\u2019impatto psicologico delle vostre cure e degli  effetti delle vostre terapie su noi poveri pazienti\u00bb.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Ho chiesto ad Anna di raccontare la sua esperienza personale,  naturalmente garantendole l\u2019anonimato, e lei ha accettato.<br \/>\nEd \u00e8 un fiume in piena&#8230; \u00abI dottori mi avevano informato su questa  nuova tecnica abortiva, solo ed esclusivamente farmacologica, mi avevano  assicurato che tutto sarebbe stato pi\u00f9 dolce, che avrei evitato  l\u2019intervento chirurgico, l\u2019anestesia, il raschiamento e tutte quelle  pratiche dolorose, compreso il ricovero, ma per me \u00e8 stato peggio, molto  peggio&#8230;\u00bb.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">\u00abIntanto non \u00e8 proprio una passeggiata, non \u00e8 come mandare gi\u00f9  un\u2019aspirina e via, anzi&#8230; dopo che hai ingoiato la prima pillola, sai  che quel giorno stesso tuo figlio morir\u00e0, e rester\u00e0 attaccato l\u00ec, morto,  dentro il tuo utero&#8230; semplicemente il suo cuoricino, che il giorno  prima hai ascoltato durante l\u2019ecografia, smetter\u00e0 di battere. Per  sempre. \u00c8 l&#8217;effetto della prima pasticca, che tu devi mettere in bocca  da sola, perch\u00e9 da sola sei lasciata a sopprimere quella vita che tu  stessa vuoi eliminare. Lo capisci subito la sera stessa che quel figlio \u00e8  morto, perch\u00e9 senti improvvisamente sparire tutti quei segni di  gravidanza che noi donne ben conosciamo, primo fra tutti il seno, di  colpo non lo senti pi\u00f9 turgido, te lo tocchi, lo palpi e non \u00e8 pi\u00f9 teso,  quasi si affloscia, e sparisce anche quella piccola tensione del basso  ventre tipica dei primi mesi di gravidanza\u00bb.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">\u00abE poi viene il peggio&#8230; perch\u00e9 devi aspettare! Devi aspettare tre  lunghi giorni, nei quali continui a fare quello che hai sempre fatto,  lavorare, camminare, mangiare, dormire, andare al cinema&#8230; cerchi cio\u00e8  di distrarti, ma sai che hai quel \u201ccoso\u201d morto l\u00ec dentro che deve essere  eliminato, espulso, cio\u00e8 abortito!\u00bb.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">\u00abPer me sono stati tre giorni terribili, gi\u00e0 ero a terra per la  separazione da mio marito, e come ultima punizione ora mi accingevo a  separarmi dall\u2019unica cosa che mi avrebbe legato a lui per sempre, e che  in quel momento era l\u2019ultima cosa che volevo\u00bb.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">\u00abIn quei tre giorni, poi, hai tutto il tempo per pensare e riflettere su  quello che ti \u00e8 accaduto e che ti accadr\u00e0, hai il tempo per pregare e  per piangere&#8230; io mi sentivo una specie di assassina in libert\u00e0&#8230; ma  perch\u00e9 avevo accettato questo maledetto metodo, mi chiedevo, non era  meglio far fare tutto al medico? Io sarei stata in anestesia, in sala  operatoria, non avrei sentito n\u00e9 provato nulla, lui avrebbe operato e  fatto tutto, io mi sarei risvegliata pulita e liberata dal mio problema,  il tutto sarebbe durato meno di un\u2019ora e non avrei avuto quelle  sensazioni orribili dell\u2019attesa\u00bb.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">\u00abIl terzo giorno mi sono ripresentata, senza aver dormito e con delle  occhiaie cos\u00ec, in ospedale per la seconda pasticca. Anche quella ti  viene messa in mano e sei tu che la devi mandare gi\u00f9&#8230; sei tu l\u2019unica e  sola mandante e autrice di un piccolo omicidio, quello del tuo figlio  mai nato, e senti che una parte di te sta per sparire per sempre, che  non torner\u00e0 mai pi\u00f9 ed \u00e8 una sensazione solo tua, di solitudine, che non  condividi nemmeno con l\u2019anonima infermiera che ti consegna la pillola  nella garza sterile.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">A quel punto per\u00f2 la ingoi subito perch\u00e9 speri che tutto finisca pi\u00f9 in  fretta possibile. Non sai ancora che, da quel momento, ti prepari ad  assistere, a partecipare ed a effettuare il tuo \u201cavveniristico\u201d aborto  terapeutico!\u00bb.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">\u00abIntanto, oltre alla situazione dolorosa, vieni pervasa dall\u2019ansia  dell\u2019arrivo dei dolori fisici. Il medico durante il colloquio mi aveva  spiegato bene che con la seconda pillola, una prostaglandina, sarebbe  avvenuto una sorta di mini-travaglio, con qualche contrazione uterina,  ripetute e ravvicinate, lievemente dolorose, ma essenziali per provocare  il distacco del feto, ormai morto, dalla parete uterina e per la sua  espulsione, e che comunque sarebbe stato eliminato facilmente, misto con  del sangue&#8230; sarebbe stato cio\u00e8 come avere delle mestruazioni pi\u00f9  dolorose del solito, cos\u00ec mi disse\u00bb.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">\u00abInvece il dolore \u00e8 stato molto pi\u00f9 forte, le contrazioni molto pi\u00f9  lunghe e la consapevolezza di quello che stava avvenendo rendeva tutto  pi\u00f9 nauseante, orribile e terribile insieme. Ed assistere a tutto questo  \u00e8 stato insopportabile. Ho pianto per il dolore fisico, ma soprattutto  ho pianto per il dolore dell\u2019anima, per la mia partecipazione attiva ad  un evento che mai avrei voluto vivere ed osservare da cos\u00ec vicino\u00bb.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">\u00abPoi, quando tutto \u00e8 finito, quando tutto \u00e8 compiuto, la procedura ti  obbliga anche a verificare di persona che effettivamente l\u2019aborto  farmacologico sia ben riuscito, per cui ti viene effettuata l\u2019ecografia  di controllo, che trasmette dallo schermo l\u2019immagine pulita del tuo  utero non pi\u00f9 \u201cabitato\u201d, ma vuoto e libero dal corpo estraneo che si \u00e8  medicalmente voluto eliminare&#8230; non si sente pi\u00f9 nessun battito  galoppante, nessun segno di vita, ma solo silenzio di morte\u00bb.<br \/>\n\u00abHo avuto un peso nel petto per lungo tempo&#8230; non \u00e8 stata una  liberazione per me, ma ho avuto un senso di colpa per diversi mesi, e  ancora oggi, quando ci ripenso, e spesso ci ripenso, mi torna la nausea  per quell\u2019esperienza terribile, irreparabile e definitiva\u00bb.<br \/>\n\u00abOgni volta che oggi leggo o sento parlare di aborto, rivivo quei miei  pochi ma orribili giorni con il ricordo di una scelta dalla quale non si  pu\u00f2 pi\u00f9 tornare indietro&#8230; e molte volte la vita poi ti porta a  situazioni in cui avresti voluto che le cose fossero andate  diversamente\u00bb.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Anna \u00e8 seduta di fronte a me e sorride amaramente. Ha una parrucca  bionda in testa, a coprire una calvizie da chemioterapia.<br \/>\nAnna sta combattendo contro un tumore maligno del sangue che si \u00e8  presentato all\u2019inizio dell\u2019anno. Anna sta lottando per la vita.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">La sua stavolta.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><em>Completion of the  elections, we are at after &#8230;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>fully carry an article  that I found on the Internet has &#8220;done&#8221; wrong. <\/em> <em> <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>I am not against  abortion, even favorable, I think the free decision of every woman &#8230; but this pill in my  opinion is a way for doctors, conscientious objectors to &#8220;wash&#8221; their  hands on the skin of patients &#8230; and half for not helping  women in the decision of whether to really heavy and very painful time. <\/em> <em> <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Useless, the various  words in the wind you had to be careful, etc.. Who suffers violence must  be a child not his own? Who does not feel to  continue a pregnancy, usually not trivial reasons, but carries on his  shoulders a &#8220;burden&#8221; of suffering, harassment and even violence. So do not point to the  woman, but tried to give active support in this moment &#8230; <\/em> <em> <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Of course this pill, I  think it was the &#8220;creation&#8221; worst that man could ever create! <\/em> <em> <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Less damaging, was the  morning after pill, as less harmful than a &#8220;therapeutic abortion  surgery. <\/em> <em> <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>I am wondering if this  liberalization of RU486, was organized to save the woman&#8217;s life, giving  breath in an ethical way to state coffers &#8230; I have many unanswered  questions. <\/em> <em> <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>old: LAW 194, where it is  over? where everything was done  with psychological support, medical and nursing, protecting women&#8217;s  health under protected? <\/em> <em> <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>We carry an article that  touched me to tears: <\/em> <em> <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>from: \\ &#8220;I took the  RU486: more than aspirin, is a shock \\&#8221; <\/em> <em> <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Melanie Rizzoli <\/em> <em> <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>the dramatic story of a  woman: &#8220;The doctors said that I had trouble, but it&#8217;s terrible. And you  have to do everything alone.&#8221; <\/em> <em> <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Anna has 34 years, is a  lawyer from Tuscany, and in its region in 2005, with the RU486 pill,  then at an experimental stage, has aborted an unwanted child conceived  with her husband she was leaving. <\/em> <em><br \/>\n&#8220;But as a trivialization  of abortion,&#8221; he said as we sat in a bar in Orbetello, &#8220;was terrible and  not ever do it again.&#8221; &#8220;You doctors are cruel  and cynical, you&#8217;re used to the pain of others, and ignored the  psychological impact of your care and the effects of your treatments on  us poor patients.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>I asked Anna to tell his  own experience, of course, guaranteeing anonymity, and she accepted. <\/em> <em><br \/>\nIt is a river in flood  &#8230; &#8220;The doctors had informed  me about this new abortion technique, exclusively pharmacology, I was  assured that everything would be sweet, I would avoid surgery,  anesthesia, curettage and all those harmful practices, including  hospitalization but for me it was worse,  much worse &#8230;\u00bb.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;While not exactly a  walk, not like to swallow an aspirin and go, but &#8230; after you&#8217;ve swallowed  the first pill, you know what day your son died, and remain stuck there,  dead, into your uterus &#8230; just her little heart,  that you heard during the day before the ultrasound, stop beating. Forever. It is the effect of the  first tablet, you must put in the mouth itself, because only six left to  remove the same life you want to delete. Do you understand now the  same evening that her son died, suddenly disappear because you feel all  those signs of pregnancy that we women know well, first of all the  breast, suddenly do not feel more swollen, I touch, the palpi and is not  more tense, almost  collapses and disappears even that small voltage lower abdomen typical  of early pregnancy. <\/em> <em> <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;And then comes the bad  &#8230; because you have to wait!  You must wait three long  days in which we continue to do what you always did, working, walking,  eating, sleeping, going to the movies &#8230; circles that is  distracting, but you know what &#8220;thing&#8221; dead in there that must be  removed, expelled, namely abortion. &#8221; <\/em> <em><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;For three days I have  been terrible, I was already on the ground for separation from my  husband, and punishment as a last hour I was about to be separated from  the only thing that would have tied him for ever, and at that moment was  the &#8216; Last thing I wanted. &#8221; <\/em> <em><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;In those three days,  then you have plenty of time to think and reflect on what happened to  you and that will happen, you have the time to pray and cry &#8230; I felt a kind of killer  at large &#8230; but because I had  accepted this bloody method, I wondered, was not it better to do  everything the doctor? I&#8217;d been under anesthesia  in the operating room, I would not have heard or experienced anything,  he acted and done, I would have awakened clean and free from my problem,  all lasted less than an hour and would not have had those feelings horrible of expectation. &#8221; <\/em> <em><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;On the third day I  resubmitted without having slept with the eye and thus, in the hospital  for the second tablet. Even that is put on you  hand and you that you have to swallow &#8230; you are the one and only  principal and author of a little murder, that of your unborn child, and  feel a part of you is about to disappear forever, that will never return  and it is a feeling only you, lonely, which also disagrees  with the anonymous nurse hands you the pill in sterile gauze. <\/em> <em><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>At that point, however,  the swallow right away because you hope that everything ends as quickly  as possible. Still do not know that  from that moment you prepare to attend, participate and make your  &#8220;pioneering&#8221; therapeutic abortion. &#8221; <\/em> <em><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;Meanwhile, besides the  painful situation, is pervaded with anxiety the arrival of physical  pain. The doctor had explained  during the interview I know that the second pill, a prostaglandin, it  would have been a sort of mini-labor, with some contraction, and  repeated close-ups, slightly painful, but essential to cause separation  of the fetus, dead from the uterine wall and  its expulsion, and that it would have been easily removed, mixed with  blood &#8230; that would be like having  your period more painful than usual, so I said. &#8221; <\/em> <em><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;But the pain was much  stronger contractions much longer and awareness of what was happening  made all the more sickening, horrible and terrible together. And watching all this has  been unbearable. I cried for the pain, but  mostly I cried for the pain of the soul, for my active participation in  an event that I never wanted to live and observe so closely. &#8221; <\/em> <em><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;Then, when everything is  over, when all is done, the procedure also forces you to actually see  for themselves that the medical abortion is successful, so you control  the ultrasound is performed, which broadcasts from the screen image clean your uterus not  &#8220;inhabited&#8221;, but empty and free from foreign matter that is medically  wanted to eliminate &#8230; no longer feels no  galloping beat, no sign of life, but the silence of death. &#8221; <\/em> <em><br \/>\n&#8220;I had a weight in my  chest for a long time &#8230; has not been a release  for me, but I had a sense of guilt for several months, and still today,  when I look back, and often look back, me back to that experience nausea  terrible, irreparable and permanent. &#8221;<br \/>\n&#8220;Whenever I read or hear  today about abortion, I relive those days with my few but horrific  memories of a choice by which one can not turn back &#8230; and often life then takes  you to a situation where you wished that things had been different. &#8220;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Anna is sitting opposite  me and smiled bitterly. He has a blonde wig on  his head, to cover a bald from chemotherapy. <\/em> <em><br \/>\nAnna is battling a blood  cancer that occurred earlier this year. Anna is struggling for  life.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Its time. <\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><em>Ach\u00e8vement des \u00e9lections,  nous sommes moins apr\u00e8s &#8230;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>exercer pleinement un  article que j&#8217;ai trouv\u00e9 sur l&#8217;Internet a \u00abfait mal\u00bb.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Je ne suis pas contre  l&#8217;avortement, m\u00eame favorable, je pense que la libre d\u00e9cision de chaque  femme &#8230; mais cette pilule, \u00e0 mon  avis est une fa\u00e7on pour les m\u00e9decins, les objecteurs de conscience \u00e0  \u00ablaver\u00bb les mains sur la peau des patients &#8230; et la moiti\u00e9 pour ne pas  aider les femmes dans la d\u00e9cision de savoir s&#8217;il faut vraiment lourd et  tr\u00e8s douloureux moment.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Inutile, les diff\u00e9rents  mots dans le vent, il fallait \u00eatre prudent, etc. Qui souffre la violence  doit \u00eatre un enfant n&#8217;est pas la sienne? Qui ne sent qu&#8217;elle  pourrait poursuivre une grossesse, g\u00e9n\u00e9ralement pas frivoles motifs,  mais porte sur ses \u00e9paules un \u00abfardeau\u00bb de la souffrance, de harc\u00e8lement  et m\u00eame la violence. Donc, ne pointent pas  vers la femme, mais a tent\u00e9 de fournir un soutien actif en ce moment &#8230;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Bien s\u00fbr, cette pilule,  je pense que c&#8217;\u00e9tait la \u00abcr\u00e9ation\u00bb pire que l&#8217;homme ne pourrait jamais  cr\u00e9er!<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Moins dommageable, a \u00e9t\u00e9  la pilule du lendemain, comme moins nocif que d&#8217;une intervention  chirurgicale &#8220;l&#8217;avortement th\u00e9rapeutique.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Je me demande si cette  lib\u00e9ralisation du RU486, a \u00e9t\u00e9 organis\u00e9e pour sauver la vie de la femme,  ce qui donne le souffle de fa\u00e7on \u00e9thique dans les coffres de l&#8217;Etat &#8230;  J&#8217;ai beaucoup de questions sans r\u00e9ponse.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>ancienne: la loi 194, o\u00f9  il est plus? o\u00f9 tout a \u00e9t\u00e9 fait avec  un soutien psychologique, m\u00e9dical et infirmier, de prot\u00e9ger la sant\u00e9 des  femmes sous-elles prot\u00e9g\u00e9es?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Nous r\u00e9alisons un article  qui m&#8217;a touch\u00e9 aux larmes:<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00e0 partir de: \\ &#8220;J&#8217;ai pris  la pilule abortive RU486: plus de l&#8217;aspirine, est un \\&#8221; choc<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Melanie Rizzoli<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>l&#8217;histoire dramatique  d&#8217;une femme: \u00abLes m\u00e9decins ont dit que j&#8217;avais du mal, mais c&#8217;est  terrible. Et vous devez tout faire tout seul.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Anna a 34 ans, est un  avocat de la Toscane, et dans sa r\u00e9gion en 2005, avec la pilule RU486,  puis \u00e0 un stade exp\u00e9rimental, a abandonn\u00e9 un enfant non d\u00e9sir\u00e9 con\u00e7u  avec son mari, elle s&#8217;en allait.<br \/>\n&#8220;Mais, comme une  banalisation de l&#8217;avortement\u00bb, at-il dit que nous \u00e9tions assis dans un  bar \u00e0 Orbetello, &#8220;a \u00e9t\u00e9 terrible et ne jamais le refaire.&#8221; &#8220;Vous les m\u00e9decins sont  cruel et cynique, vous \u00eates habitu\u00e9 \u00e0 la douleur des autres, et n\u00e9glige  l&#8217;impact psychologique de vos soins et les effets de vos traitements sur  nous les patients pauvres.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>J&#8217;ai demand\u00e9 \u00e0 Anna de  dire \u00e0 sa propre exp\u00e9rience, bien s\u00fbr, garantissant l&#8217;anonymat, et elle a  accept\u00e9.<br \/>\nEt c&#8217;est une inondation  &#8230; &#8220;Les m\u00e9decins m&#8217;avaient  inform\u00e9 de cette nouvelle technique d&#8217;avortement, exclusivement de la  pharmacologie, on m&#8217;a assur\u00e9 que tout serait doux, je voudrais \u00e9viter la  chirurgie, l&#8217;anesth\u00e9sie, le curetage et toutes les pratiques n\u00e9fastes, y  compris l&#8217;hospitalisation mais pour moi, c&#8217;\u00e9tait  pire, bien pire &#8230;\u00bb.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;Bien que n&#8217;\u00e9tant pas  exactement une promenade, pas comme \u00e0 avaler une aspirine et aller, mais  &#8230; apr\u00e8s avoir aval\u00e9 la  premi\u00e8re pilule, vous savez quel jour votre enfant va mourir, et de  rester coinc\u00e9 l\u00e0-bas, morts, dans l&#8217;ut\u00e9rus &#8230; tout son petit c\u0153ur, que  vous avez entendu pendant la journ\u00e9e avant l&#8217;\u00e9chographie, cesser de  battre. Forever. Il est l&#8217;effet de la  premi\u00e8re tablette, vous devez mettre dans la bouche seule, parce que  vous \u00eates rest\u00e9e seule \u00e0 r\u00e9primer la m\u00eame vie que vous souhaitez  supprimer. Comprenez-vous maintenant  le m\u00eame soir que son fils est mort, soudainement dispara\u00eetre parce que  vous sentez tous ces signes de la grossesse des femmes que nous  connaissons bien, tout d&#8217;abord le sein, tout \u00e0 coup ne se sentent pas  plus gonfl\u00e9, je touche, les palpes et n&#8217;est pas plus tendue, presque  s&#8217;effondre et dispara\u00eet m\u00eame que l&#8217;abdomen petite tension inf\u00e9rieure  typique de d\u00e9but de grossesse.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00bbEt puis vient le mal &#8230;  parce que vous avez \u00e0  attendre! Vous devez attendre trois  longues journ\u00e9es dans lequel nous continuons \u00e0 faire ce que vous avez  toujours fait, travailler, marcher, manger, dormir, aller au cin\u00e9ma &#8230; cercles qui est g\u00eanant,  mais vous savez ce &#8220;truc&#8221; morts l\u00e0-dedans qui doit \u00eatre \u00e9loign\u00e9,  expuls\u00e9, \u00e0 savoir l&#8217;avortement. &#8220;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;Pendant trois jours,  j&#8217;ai \u00e9t\u00e9 terrible, j&#8217;\u00e9tais d\u00e9j\u00e0 sur le terrain pour la s\u00e9paration d&#8217;avec  mon mari, et le ch\u00e2timent comme une derni\u00e8re heure j&#8217;allais \u00eatre  s\u00e9par\u00e9e de la seule chose qui l&#8217;aurait li\u00e9 \u00e0 jamais, et \u00e0 ce moment  \u00e9tait le\u00ab La derni\u00e8re chose que je  voulais. &#8220;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;Dans ces trois jours,  alors vous avez beaucoup de temps \u00e0 penser et \u00e0 r\u00e9fl\u00e9chir sur ce qui  s&#8217;est pass\u00e9 pour vous et ce qui va arriver, vous avez le temps de prier  et de pleurer &#8230; Je sentais une sorte de  tueur en g\u00e9n\u00e9ral &#8230; mais parce que j&#8217;avais  accept\u00e9 cette m\u00e9thode de sang, je me demandais, n&#8217;est-ce pas mieux \u00e0  faire tout ce que le m\u00e9decin? J&#8217;avais \u00e9t\u00e9 sous  anesth\u00e9sie dans la salle d&#8217;op\u00e9ration, je n&#8217;aurais pas entendu ou v\u00e9cu  quelque chose, il a agi et fait, j&#8217;aurais \u00e9veill\u00e9 propres et exemptes de  mon probl\u00e8me, tous ont dur\u00e9 moins d&#8217;une heure et n&#8217;aurait pas eu ces  sentiments horrible de la confiance.  &#8220;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;Le troisi\u00e8me jour, je  soumis \u00e0 nouveau sans avoir dormi \u00e0 l&#8217;oeil et donc, \u00e0 l&#8217;h\u00f4pital pour la  seconde tablette. M\u00eame que vous mettez dans  la main et vous que vous avez \u00e0 avaler &#8230; vous \u00eates la seule et  principale seulement et auteur d&#8217;un assassiner peu, celui de votre  enfant \u00e0 na\u00eetre et de se sentir une partie de vous est sur le point de  dispara\u00eetre \u00e0 jamais, qui ne reviendra jamais et c&#8217;est un sentiment que  vous, solitaire, qui est \u00e9galement en  d\u00e9saccord avec les mains anonymes infirmi\u00e8re vous la pilule dans de la  gaze st\u00e9rile.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00c0 ce stade, cependant,  l&#8217;hirondelle de suite parce que vous esp\u00e9rez que tout se termine aussi  rapidement que possible. Vous ne savez pas que d\u00e8s  ce moment vous vous pr\u00e9parez \u00e0 assister, participer et faire votre  &#8220;futuriste&#8221; l&#8217;avortement th\u00e9rapeutique. &#8220;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;Pendant ce temps, outre  la situation douloureuse, est impr\u00e9gn\u00e9e de l&#8217;anxi\u00e9t\u00e9 l&#8217;arriv\u00e9e de la  douleur physique. Le m\u00e9decin avait expliqu\u00e9  lors de l&#8217;entrevue, je sais que la pilule d&#8217;autre part, une  prostaglandine, il aurait \u00e9t\u00e9 une sorte de mini-travail, avec une  contraction, et r\u00e9p\u00e9t\u00e9 des gros plans, un peu p\u00e9nible, mais  indispensable pour provoquer la s\u00e9paration du f\u0153tus, mort de la paroi ut\u00e9rine et  son expulsion, et qu&#8217;il aurait \u00e9t\u00e9 facile \u00e0 enlever, m\u00e9lang\u00e9 \u00e0 du sang  &#8230; ce serait que la  menstruation douloureuse plus que d&#8217;habitude, je lui ai dit. &#8220;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;Mais la douleur \u00e9tait  beaucoup plus forte contractions beaucoup plus longue et la conscience  de ce qui se passait d&#8217;autant plus \u00e9coeurant, horrible et terrible  ensemble. Et regardez ce fut  insupportable. J&#8217;ai pleur\u00e9 pour la  douleur, mais surtout j&#8217;ai pleur\u00e9 pour la douleur de l&#8217;\u00e2me, de ma  participation active \u00e0 un \u00e9v\u00e9nement que je n&#8217;ai jamais voulu vivre et  d&#8217;observer de si pr\u00e8s. &#8220;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00bbPuis, quand tout est  fini, quand tout est fait, la proc\u00e9dure de forces aussi vous voir  r\u00e9ellement pour eux-m\u00eames que l&#8217;avortement m\u00e9dicamenteux est r\u00e9ussie, si  vous contr\u00f4lez l&#8217;\u00e9chographie est pratiqu\u00e9e, qui diffuse de l&#8217;image \u00e0  l&#8217;\u00e9cran nettoyer votre ut\u00e9rus  n&#8217;est pas &#8220;habit\u00e9e&#8221;, mais vide et libre de toute mati\u00e8re \u00e9trang\u00e8re qui  est m\u00e9dicalement voulait \u00e9liminer &#8230; ne sent plus aucune battu  au galop, aucun signe de vie, mais le silence de la mort. &#8221;<br \/>\n\u00abJ&#8217;ai eu un poids dans ma  poitrine pendant une longue p\u00e9riode &#8230; n&#8217;a pas \u00e9t\u00e9 une  lib\u00e9ration pour moi, mais j&#8217;ai eu un sentiment de culpabilit\u00e9 pour  plusieurs mois, et encore aujourd&#8217;hui, quand je regarde en arri\u00e8re, et  souvent regarder en arri\u00e8re, me rendre \u00e0 cette terrible exp\u00e9rience des  naus\u00e9es, irr\u00e9parable et permanent. &#8221;<br \/>\n\u00abChaque fois que je lis  ou entend aujourd&#8217;hui sur l&#8217;avortement, je revis ces jours avec mes  quelques souvenirs horribles, mais d&#8217;un choix par lequel on ne peut pas  revenir en arri\u00e8re &#8230; et souvent la vie nous  m\u00e8ne vers une situation o\u00f9 vous avez souhait\u00e9 que les choses avaient \u00e9t\u00e9  diff\u00e9rentes. &#8220;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Anna est assise en face  de moi et sourit am\u00e8rement. Il a une perruque blonde  sur la t\u00eate, pour couvrir une chauve de la chimioth\u00e9rapie.<br \/>\nAnna se bat contre un  cancer du sang qui a eu lieu plus t\u00f4t cette ann\u00e9e. Anna se bat pour la vie.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Son temps. <\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Terminate le elezioni, eccoci al dopo&#8230; riporto in toto un articolo trovato su internet che mi ha &#8220;fatto&#8221; male. Non sono contro all&#8217;aborto, anzi favorevolissima, credo sia libera decisione di ogni donna&#8230; ma questa pillola a parer mio \u00e8 un modo per permettere ai medici, obiettori di coscienza di &#8220;lavarsene&#8221; le mani sulla pelle delle &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/viscontitoscoalda.com\/index.php\/2010\/04\/03\/ru486-serve-ai-medici-per-scaricarsi-la-coscienza\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continua a leggere <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Ru486, serve ai Medici per &quot;scaricarsi&quot; la coscienza??<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,6],"tags":[120,181,278],"class_list":["post-387","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-associazioni-e-forum-di-aiuto-e-dintorni","category-bioetica-e-dintorni","tag-donna","tag-legislazione","tag-ru486"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/viscontitoscoalda.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/387","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/viscontitoscoalda.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/viscontitoscoalda.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/viscontitoscoalda.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/viscontitoscoalda.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=387"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/viscontitoscoalda.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/387\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/viscontitoscoalda.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=387"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/viscontitoscoalda.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=387"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/viscontitoscoalda.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=387"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}